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Being a mom is hard work, and when all your baby does is eat, poop, cry and sleep, it makes it hard to feel any sort of reward. But lets be real for a minute, and help other moms out by being honest. Not shopping in well-supplied supermarkets for abundant food for my family. Not spending each day with the satisfaction of a job that allows me to be near my children when it really counts. The problem with painting motherhood as hard is that we are creating a construct of a life unappealing. being a mom is a noun, a verb, and an adjective at any given time, and all at once. Being a mom is discouraging, and heart-wrenchingly draining, and rewarding, and soul-satisfyingly wonderful. Being a mom is a craft to be honed, a work in progress, a circuitous route to an unknown destiny. Being a stepmom gets tougher when you feel under-appreciated, used, unheard, and emotionally drained. It is easy to feel used because you love hard but things like not being recognized on mothers day or other special occasions occur. The child may never say thank you for being my bonus parent and giving me your all. but honestly, my steepest learning curve was not my fourth child, it was my first. If youre a mom of one or two, and are questioning whether its a good idea to add to the chaos, you might consider these reasons (i think) it gets easier. Yes its all the other fairytale things too, but some days it really kicks your ass. They both come with challenges, one not easier than the other just different challenges. I was so sick this week to the point people were begging me to leave work. That parenting can be straight-up challenging, period, and that being a single mom doesnt necessarily make it harder. Being a mom is not a job because it is an unpaid position, may be irregular or never for some women, and is not part of ones professional achievements or professional life. The secondary, more general version of careera chosen pursuit could apply to being a mom, but then it would disregard the primary definition of career. at the end of the day, though, its probably harder being a mom than a dad in most cases. dont tell me how hard it is being a stay at home mom when all of your bills are paid by your spouses hard earned dollar. Dont tell me how stressful it is when you are privileged enough to even have the choice to work or not.